In these last days of summer heat a man often loses his focus and clarity. Air shimmers above black asphalt, and the mind comes to a standstill. Everything, good and bad, is still there, but it all seems to be on hold. This long hot summer leaves a man weary, worried, and confused.

These are the “dog days” of summer, named for the dog star, Sirius. You can see it just above the eastern horizon in August’s pre-dawn sky. Though the star’s appearance marks the height of the year’s hottest season, it’s also a portent of cooler days ahead. Just as the air seems to catch fire, the days begin getting shorter, their lengthening shadows promising relief. This is when fertile fields begin yielding their bounty, and a season of plenty begins.

When summer’s dog days wear on a man’s mind and body, that’s when trained fingers, hands, and flesh can come to his rescue. I have spent much of my life learning the arts and secrets of sensual massage. I know the sensitive areas and sweet spots, and how to use sensual touch for maximum effect.

I will create an atmosphere for our meeting designed to put you at ease, and welcome you into a world of sensual pleasure. As our tryst unfolds I will stir your desires, awaken your passions, and take your body to the summit of sensual ecstasy. I will leave you with newfound energy and clarity, ready to face life’s challenges anew.

So if you find these dog days sapping your strength, muddling your thoughts, or draining your hopes for tomorrow, get in touch with me—today. Together we can heal your hurts, and shine a light on all the pleasures the world has to give us.

Midsummer— Shakespeare set his on June night, but in our part of the world it arrives in July’s sultry darkness like a whisper of breeze. As the days stretch so long that they can get no longer, it seems to take possession of our lives. A midsummer’s day ends with a sudden sunset ushering in sweet cooling shadows. These are the sweltering days—lazy afternoons lost in daydreams, followed by nights that urge us to indulge ourselves in the deepest sensual pleasures.

Midsummer is a moment that stretches through those languid afternoons, and into the cool evenings. It’s the magic of folklore, the poetry of the Bard, and the music of nature. But most of all it is touch. In midsummer the heat peaks like a fever, and our flesh aches with tension and desire.

This is a season made for the arts of touch and sensual satisfaction. A sensual massage eases tensions, and sates the body’s passions. I am trained in these arts. When we meet I know how to find all the heat within you. I will coax it to the surface, and let it explode like a bright Roman candle in the July sky.

Our ideal meeting might occur in the heat of the day, or it could happen in the cooling dreams of a fabled midsummer’s night. Either way, it will take on its own colors, and guide us its own way. Even as the heat rises within you my fingers will soothe sore muscles. Our bodies will press together, as tensions give way to ecstasy.

So if you want your midsummer to become a sensual poem of heated passions and cooling dreams, please do contact me.

As I wrote last month, many men are lost in a crisis of masculinity. When a man simply acts like a man, the critics carp. Too many men fall victim to this thinking, checking themselves with every word they say, and everything they do. This can lead to repressed passions, frayed nerves, and worse.

A man’s life shouldn’t be ruled by the fears of those around him. As long as you don’t inflict hurt on others, you should be able to say whatever words, do whatever deeds, and think whatever thoughts you want. Sometimes a man wants to act up, blow off steam, and have fun. This doesn’t need to be destructive.

You might unleash your “inner caveman” by hitting a baseball, pounding some nails, or working out in a gym. Or you might be the kind of guy who likes fighting with grizzly bears. But if you can’t find a batting cage, don’t want the gym, and there aren’t any grizzlies in your neighborhood, there are more pleasurable ways to sate your most primitive urges.

When we meet I will show you ways to let yourself go, release excess energy, and find the sources of your innermost passions. Ours will be a pleasure-filled journey where we explore our deepest instincts, unleash our animal urges, and reach heights neither of us could’ve imagined.

Ours will be a search for the deepest roots of our ecstasy. We will peel back the layers of proper behavior, revealing the most sensual aspects of our true nature. I will help you penetrate the core of all pleasurable sensations. Together we will satisfy the wild beast within, and as we finish our meeting, you will be prepared to face the civilized world, and maybe shake up its staid stability.

A man should feel manly. That idea isn’t always popular, but it’s true. In a time when some manly qualities are questioned, it’s good to remind ourselves of what a man can be. Just about everyone accepts, and even celebrates women who exude femininity, but lately masculinity has had its ups and downs. When male strength saves the day people usually give thanks, but too often this gratitude fades away, only to be replaced by misunderstandings, and criticisms of supposed insensitivity.

A man’s essence lives in both his body and his spirit. Fueled by the animal in his heart, a man uses the intelligence in his head, and in so doing he reveals the tenderness in his soul. His bones and muscles are infused with the instincts of chaotic life in the wild, yet he understands and appreciates the domestic order that allows him to relax and enjoy life. It’s my mission to help that happen.

When we meet we will begin by easing all the stresses and strains, so we can both relax with each other, and celebrate who we really are. I am comfortable with my femininity, and that allows me to show you a world where the best qualities of a man are always welcomed and encouraged. It’s a world where passion meets soft sensuality, bringing forth eruptions of ecstasy. It’s the place where spirits soar, and flesh finds its sweetest satisfactions.

Once we’ve reached the pinnacles of passion, I will guide you into exquisite moments of rest and relaxation. As our meeting ends, and we part from one another, we will both know that we’ve proved one principle: Masculinity thrives when it meets femininity, and vice-versa.

As warmth finally fills the air we sometimes celebrate the season by suddenly demanding too much from our muscles, bones, and bodies. We go out in the morning to dig in the garden, or play that first game of tennis, and then by evening our bodies are too bruised and raw for other pursuits. The night we had counted on for relaxation and pleasure turns into hours of pain interrupted by fitful sleep.  

There’s a simple reason for this. As winter came on we adopted the habits of cold weather, exercised less, and sat in one place for far too long. At the same time life went on, and we occupied ourselves with our normal work with all its irritations and stress. Bosses and clients were still demanding the same work, and the business still needed the same attention, creating new pressures and obligations every day.  

In the summer you might take a vacation, or spend weekend in the great outdoors. You might hike, golf, or play tennis in the open air, but right now you have a whole winter of stress built up inside you. Despite the clear, warm days, you find you’re not sleeping well, or perhaps you see your blood pressure slowly climbing. Your muscles are stiff, and your whole being feels the dull fatigue of constant physical and mental tension. 

This is when your stressed-out body really needs a tune-up. A younger person may need it simply to recharge, and grow ever stronger, while someone who is older might want to preserve or improve particular skills, such as keeping good posture, or maintaining balance.  

One of the best ways to start a warm weather renewal is to visit to a masseuse trained in the arts of sensual relaxation. If you are in this predicament, you may be one of those people whose greatest needs for sensual touch and healing come in spring and early summer. This is when I see so many clients start their sessions with knots and tender spots all over. It is also the time of year when I’m so often rewarded by the sight of these people regaining their strength, vitality, and their ability to appreciate life’s most sensual pleasures.